When things are quickly falling apart in a marriage and all hope is lost, what are the possibilities open to you and what can you do? If you are the only one that has any interest in restoring the marriage, it can be difficult to get the marriage started up again. Your spouse may have made up their mind to get a divorce, and it might seem like there is nothing you can do to steer the ship off-course. If you have already talked to all the family, friends, and relatives of the spouse, and they haven’t made any headway, then it can be downright infuriating to try to get your spouse to love you again. You may feel totally lost and in the dark. However, there are some concrete steps you can take.
The institution of marriage is the backbone of a healthy society. Married families form the crux of what makes a society tick. Without married families, there are innumerable options for things to go wrong, and it is the same in individual’s lives. People that aren’t married live less fulfilling, happy, and healthy lives, and they tend to be without the needed satisfaction to make them happy, industrious, and lovable people. You have to be willing to fight to preserve this institution and the place it holds in your life. If you’re not willing to put up the good fight and fight it out, then it can be difficult to make any headway at all in the procurement of a healthy marriage. Marriages last a lifetime, and you have to fight a lifetime to keep them together.
The key trick you have to use is manipulation, and this is the best tool that you can rely on over time. You can stop your spouse from asking for a divorce if you use manipulation well. You must limit the access that your spouse has to you so that you can restore that sense of mystique that attracted them to you in the first place. Once the mystique is there, and you have lessened contact with your mate, your mate can see the opportunity to pursue you again. It is reverse psychology, but it works.
The trick above can work, and it will restore a marriage as if by magic. Many people believe that they want what they can’t have, and this principle works to save marriages. By restoring that sense of mystery, your spouse will be all over you again. Your spouse will start to think about what attracted you to them in the first place, and this will rekindle the bonding process all over again and make the relationship much stronger.