Is your marriage on the brick of disaster and you feel like you are the only one that wants to make it work? Are you trying to save your marriage from divorce? If so you are not alone. But before you get your hopes up is their a way how to save your marriage alone?
People ask me this question all of the time. While every marriage is different, the answer could go either way. But it most causes it is impossible to save your marriage if your spouse doesn’t want to. But there is always the possibility that you can. So don’t get scared yet!
It takes two people to make a marriage, the same way it takes two to make a baby. You see, marriage is a joint venture between you and your spouse, for lack of better words and for any marriage to work you both have to work as one.
The second one spouse starts to neglect the others needs or put themselves first is when things go sour. When things go sour and the both of you have your differences, the only way to save your marriage if the two of you put forth an effort. Regardless if you want to save the marriage alone, sooner or later you will need to learn some highly effective techniques to make them fall in love with you again.
If you want to save your marriage alone you are going to have to take a good look in the mirror. It is important that you first identify your own faults before you point the figure at your spouse. Was there a lack of intimacy in the relationship? Was it something you did or didn’t do to make the marriage fall apart?
Regardless of your situation you need to identify your shortcomings in the marriage and fix them. Did you spouse constantly nag because you never had time for them? If so designate some time for your spouse every week or month for you and your spouse can have some alone time.
This can be tough when your spouse is working full time, has to help the kids with homework and cook dinner. If this is the case try to help out and relive your spouse of some of their household duties.
Chances are your spouse has told you once or twice before what problems they have with you or the relationship. If so these underlying issues could be destroying your marriage. Identify the problems in you marriage and either step up to the plate and help out or make the necessary changes to fix the problem. Point, blank, period.
Another thing that you must realize is that it is going to take a tad bit of patience if you are trying to save your marriage alone. Why? Because if you want to save your marriage you are going to have make your spouse want you back. Now this is not going to happen over night and you may take two step backwards before you can take one step forward. So will definitely need to be patient with your spouse and have a plan.